Sending texts to make him think about you when you cannot be together helps to keep your attraction alive. Often a subtle reminder that you are thinking about them creates a desire to be with you. This can be very effective when you can’t be together to spice things up or when a conversation with a potential love interest seems to have gone cold.
Body language and tone are so important to create and keep that chemistry alive. Stating the obvious, if you are already in a romantic relationship, then sexting will be something that you can have a lot of fun with. Sexting goes further than just flirty texts and will definitely spice up any long term relationship.
BUT we will stick to texts that are suggestive and intriguing. Creating curiosity is the key! Choose the texts that fit your specific situation. Don’t use texts that are too flirty right off the bat if you want to get to know them better. Also NO naked pics…way too many horror stories! Use texts that make him curious first, then after you know them a bit better, you can do more flirty texts.
Texts that will make him chase you If you want to keep someone’s interest, you cannot be too available. This is when a little bit of mystery is your friend. What do you think is a more interesting text to send when he asks, “Can you meet up tonight?’ “Sure, what time is good for you?,” or “I have plans tonight but if you want to make plans for next weekend, that’s fine.” The first response tells him that you have nothing interesting going on and will jump when he calls or texts.
Your time is valuable, YOU are valuable and he will have to treat you that way. Text messages to make him want you When you want someone to WANT you, you want to be someone that is enjoyable to be around. Simple right? It sort of is. If you are a positive and kind person, this is an irresistible trait.
This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t act like yourself, but should be aware of how attractive spending time with a positive person is vs a negative person. Make him think about you all day One of the best things is having someone that cares about your day and what you are doing.
By showing your interest in him, this will create an intimacy that you can build on. It may be simple but asking how his day is going may just do the trick. It’s the small stuff that we share that brings us closer together. Try to bring up things that he may have mentioned about his day.
You will make him feel special by being curious about the things going on in his life and bringing him into yours. Another way to make him feel special is to ask his advice or help. Guys love to be “the protector.” So allow him to be there for you when you need it.
Just make sure not to overdo it when they are at work, They will not be able to concentrate! ‘When I think about what we did last night, I can’t focus on anything else” “I had a really vivid dream about you last night…😉” “Call me later so that I can describe in detail what I dreamt about you” ‘I think that we should play a sexy game of truth or dare that next time we are together…” “I was so hot last night…” “I still smell you on my pillow..😏” “I am so stressed, I could really use a massage..😉” “It feels so empty without you here” “If you were here, I would totally….(He will need to know what you wanted to say next!) I have been practicing some new yoga poses..
When those warm feelings come rushing back, that pang of missing someone is sure to follow. Bring up those happy times, the vacations or holidays you have spent together. Send him pictures or music that you both have enjoyed together. All of us have small things that remind us of the other.